Founder, designer, buyer and the lady behind Refuse To Obey.


“I started RTO as a safe haven. It’s a world I can get lost in. I wanted to create a brand in which women feel empowered. RTO is based off of sisterhood, adversity, rock n roll, sexual desire, erotica and total badassery. It’s a place where women can find and embrace their best selves, their true selves. THERE ARE NO RULES HERE.


Created for the women in charge. For the babes who hold their head high and their middle finger higher! I aim to create a supportive place for each and every woman out there that feels that desire within them to want to connect with like-minded babes but hasn’t found the outlet for it yet. Refuse To Obey is that outlet. Use it, love it, join in and be inspired by it. SISTERS, COME TOGETHER.”


Based in Toronto, Ontario. 


All garments that are not marked vintage are handmade here in Toronto by Nat. Currently operating as a one woman show. All garments are made in a safe and good vibing working environment.

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